JUST TO CLARIFY

To all those who saw yesterday's post and the unending conversations between me and the said ANONYMOUS, I seldom speak and react to rude comments but that one made me really mad. Not because I am not used to getting criticisms, or I do not know how to accept mistakes, it is because the comment sounded like, that "ANONYMOUS" knows everything. She even enumerated all the kinds of tenses, simply stressing that I don't even know them. It seems like she wanted to say "go back in elementary and high school and study English again!" I mean I be a writer by profession but that doesn't mean I can no longer commit wrong grammar. And one thing more, my blog is not paid for, no one pays me to write or blog something. I started blogging simply because, I wanted to have a diary wherein I can spill anything and everything that happens in my life, and my OOTDS. I have to say that I started blogging with a lot of wrong grammars in my posts. I always go back to my old posts once or twice a month. I did not edit them simply because I wanted all my readers to see how I was before. Kahit naman sino sa atin have mistakes in their english. NOBODY IS PERFECT. I am not an author of a book to be that perfect. Aminin naman naten, kahit anong bagay sa  mundo, hindi madali, everything takes time. So kahit sabihin pa ni ANONYMOUS na I should go back and study all the kinds of TENSES, for sure kahit sya mahihirapan.

I got messages in my mail, or in facebook saying how happy they are with my blog, how I inspire them with my OOTDS and with my posts. And I also got messages from people saying the flaws in my blog, and I am happy because they  simply do not want to criticize, but also they wanted to help me out (which is I didn't see from ANONYMOUS' comment). Honestly speaking, I am sensitive, but I know how to separate it to be able to understand better the issues. But this time, I tried to stay positive upon reading the comment, pero no matter how I wanna say to myself to just keep quiet, I can't. I just don't like the way the comment sounded. And who are you to judge someone else's personal blog? If you really wanted to help, be careful in constructing your criticisms. Kasi kahit pa sabihin na critcisims should be accepted wholeheartedly, masasaktan at masasaktan pa din ang taong pagasasabihan mo non, simply because we are humans and we tend to be be emotional talaga. To the ANONYMOUS, try to be sensitive to the feelings of others. Not all the time, you can just throw criticisms and say all you wanted is to help.

And ANONYMOUS, whoever you are, if you have the guts to post that rude comment of yours, why don't you have the guts to leave your name too?

To close this issue, I just wanted to clear that with my entire 23 years of existence, I got a lot and have been getting a lot of criticisms, both from my work, from my friends, from my family, and I just have to say, those criticisms made me who I am right now. So to ANONYMOUS, even though, how rude your comment is, honestly speaking, I accept your criticisms whole-heartedly. I just can't take the way it sounded.

I posted this just to clarify the issue. I do not need any BVs now, I am so busy with work and with all the blessings God has showered to me. I just wanted to explain my side and that's all, I hope ANONYMOUS everything is clear with you. Good luck with your life and God bless to you!